hmm. had this rather interesting conversation today, in a public bench in the middle of a mall. Although the mission failed, i led me to thinking about stuff. Continued to think while i was prasticing piano…ahaha which meant my pieces were good since i was so emotional! 
. But often i find myself “gong yut to zho yut to”. I tell people one thing, and yet i don’t really do it myself when it comes to it. But some things are *hard* to do/talk about.
Communication between friends is vital, but to what point? Sometimes you really want to talk to someone but can’t get yourself to start talking. Sometimes you wonder if you have talked too much. Parents. How much do you tell them? Does the perfect mother/daughter father/son relationship include the parents knowing every aspect of the child’s life? Humans were born with the ability to communicate…but what should one keep to themselves? how do you know if a listening party wants to listen to what you have to say?
There are some people i would like to get closer to but due to my laziness/shyness i have been unable to. I am going to try my best and mold myself into what i want to be.
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interesting blog… lots of ppl are “gong yut to zho yut to”. even i am… well, occasionally..
i think there’s no definite answers to your questions. i believe its what you feel is most comfortable in telling ppl.. yes, they may not like to listen to it but then you might feel uncomfy not talking abt it..
right?
Me thinks you think too much
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i don’t think there is a ‘standard right’ answer to your question – it all depends on yourself. something u gotta think through yourself in my opinion. good luck! :rofls:
honestly….that’s me sometimes too…”gong yut to zho yut to”…what i told others not to do…and later i was doing the same thing. usu what we told others to do are ones that are difficult to achieve…so don’t worry…and try your best lor! 😉
perfect parents don’t mean knowing everything about their child(ren)…that might make things worse…best to give their child(ren) some space. everyone has their untold secrets.
humans are born with the ability to communicate for building relationships of all kinds and sometimes to relieve stress. sometimes you will feel better when some things are said…so don’t worry whether your listener will listen or whether you said too much…esp when your listener is your friend. a good friend will understand and WILL listen to everything you said. say everything you wanna say until you feel comfortable…i think that’s the best way. =)
your pieces must be VERY good because that caused you to think and being emotional!! i’m sure of that because i can think a lot while playing good emotional music, but not boring ones!! :laugh:
good luck in moulding yourself into what you want to be! 😉
Hmmm…emotional pieces – tick; communication between friends – tick; hesitation opening up – tick.
Wait. In order to find out the answers to you questions, I suggest **trial & error**. 
There are many possibilities and they all depend on the people involved. I can tell you my experiences (please send me an email) if you want~~ 
My mom told me that a relationship involves not one, but **two** parties. 
(Therefore, it all depends on mutual feelings.) I can tell somebody I promise I’ll be their friend forever, but if s/he refuses it’s not really within my control, right? 
Thinking is good…but it’s better when you don’t do it alone. 
Take care Kay! 
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AAAAHHHH!!! I hope I don’t spend all day on Xanga!!! 
Extra note: Goodness, I was planning to leave comments on entries that caught my attention, but it seems like **everybody’s** entries are so eye-catching!!!
don’t know what to say…. :laugh: :laugh:
The perfect parents are ones that positively influance their child into wanting to tell them everything that he/she desires to tell, in a way such that those things are also everything that, when communicated, adds to their lives. (3 logic words here, so read carefully).
As for molding yourself… please, only up to the point of getting what you want, without ruining what others want from you.
hi kay :rofls: itz me josie…. if u rememba… hahaa 😉 btw* can u teach me how 2 make a boarda 4 ma xanga….?? :frown: plz…. do u mind if i gib u ma pass and u help me make it??? dom told m 2 find u 4 help gahh……. =] fanxzzz arr..~!
josie <3 :embarassed: